We put the people we were “cutting” further down the excel sheet in case we changed our mind. I recommend doing this in steps.First, your automatic “no”s. Get them out right away.
Second, anybody you wouldn’t miss on your big day. Third, cousin twice removed you only see at Christmas and barely know? Take them off the list. Its OK.
At this point, check your numbers. Are you close to or below your desired number of guests? Then you’re good. If not, you now need to be more discerning. Did you invite Joe because he’s a party animal, but you haven’t seen him in three years? Maybe cut him out. Do you not care if there are kids there? It’s a great way to cut down on people! Plus, your friends may enjoy a night out without the kids.